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Befriending Silence: Discovering the Gifts of Cistercian Spirituality

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In Befriending Silence: Discovering the Gifts of Cistercian Spirituality respected speaker, author, and Patheos blogger Carl McColman introduces Cistercian spirituality as “the hidden jewel of the Church,” presenting a surprisingly contemporary path grounded in monastic tradition. This accessible and comprehensive guide highlights a unique focus on simplicity, living close to the earth, and contemplative prayer, all of which make Cistercian spirituality relevant today.

Steeped in chant and silence, grounded in down-to-earth work and service, and immersed in the mystical wisdom of teachers ancient (Bernard of Clairvaux) and modern (Thomas Merton), Cistercian spirituality’s beautifully humble path has for centuries made monasteries places of rest, retreat, and renewal. Now, Carl McColman offers the first practical introduction to this ancient method of contemplative spirituality for all people.

Hailed by reviewers of his many books as playful and profound, McColman draws on his experience as a lay Cistercian to provide insight into the relevance of the tradition to contemporary issues and spiritual practice. He explains how silence, simplicity, stability, stewardship of the earth, contemplation, ongoing conversion, and devotion to Mary combine to offer a rich and unique path to discipleship and intimacy with God.

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Key Features

  • Presents an accessible and practical guide to Cistercian spirituality
  • Explores the value of silence and reflection
  • Provides an understanding of the spiritual path that informed Thomas Merton, Thomas Keating, and Bernard of Clairvaux


  • From Bernard’s Valley to Merton’s Mountain
  • Charism: A Gift from God (with a Greek Accent)
  • Sacred Stories: Remembering Who We Truly Are
  • Formation: You Are the Potter, I Am the Clay
  • Humility: Down-to-Earth Spirituality
  • Hospitality: Welcoming Christ, Welcoming Others
  • Compassion and Community: Where Two or Three Are Gathered
  • Prayer and Liturgy: The Rhythm of the Day
  • Contemplation: The Star of the Sea
  • Conversion of Life: A Promise for All Time
  • Stability: Blooming Where We’re Planted
  • Perseverance: Living a (Lay) Cistercian Life

Praise for the Print Edition

Drawing on his personal experience and expansive knowledge, Carl McColman skillfully presents readers with an accessible introduction to the beauty of Cistercian spirituality. As the Rule of Benedict instructs, readers will be inspired to ‘listen carefully’ to the wisdom of a tradition that continues to speak powerfully to women and men. Not only does Befriending Silence guide us in the gifts of Cistercian spirituality, but it’s also a tremendous gift to all spiritual seekers!

—Rev. Daniel P. Horan, O.F.M.

Befriending Silence is useful and stimulating to anyone who wishes to profit from the substantial wisdom of the Cistercian tradition.

—Michael Casey, O.C.S.O.

It’s a pleasure to recommend Carl McColman’s new book on Cistercian spirituality, Befriending Silence. It manifests in a wonderful way the Cistercian charism which today is shared by Lay Cistercians and also guides mature seekers.

—Br. Patrick Hart, O.C.S.O.

Product Details

  • Title: Befriending Silence: Discovering the Gifts of Cistercian Spirituality
  • Author: Carl McColman
  • Publisher: Ave Maria Press
  • Publication Date: 2015
  • Pages: 192
  • Christian Group: Catholic
  • Resource Type: Monograph
  • Topic: Spirituality

About the Author

Carl McColman is the author of The Big Book of Christian Mysticism and Answering the Contemplative Call, and writes for Patheos, Huffington Post, and Contemplative Journal. He also has his own popular website and blog devoted to Christian and world mysticism. McColman is a member of the Lay Cistercians of Our Lady of the Holy Spirit, a contemplative community under the spiritual guidance of Trappist monks. A Catholic in full-time ministry as a retreat leader and speaker, McColman frequently leads workshops and retreats on contemplative spirituality at churches, seminaries, monasteries and retreat centers.

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Digital list price: $15.99
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